As I pondered on the beautiful things that I experience in the World, “New Beginnings” rang in my heart. The very energy of these two words created excitement and joy in my soul. In my life, I’m very conscious of the words I use because of the energy and feelings that I experience from them, and “New Beginnings” brings excited energy and a joyful feeling for me especially as Winter is moving into Spring, which is my favorite season.
There are many events and moments we celebrate because they are seen as “New Beginnings”. We celebrate the new beginning of a child’s life here on this earth. We celebrate a new year of life on the day of our birth. We celebrate the new beginnings of our life as we step out of one school into the next. We celebrate the beginnings of a new career. We celebrate the new beginning of two souls in a committed relationship. We celebrate the beginnings of each new year. All of these can feel energizing and joyful.
On the other hand, there seem to be many things that we all mourn because they are ending. Since many people are resistant to change, this can create very real and very negative and heavy feelings. Think back to a time that you’ve experienced these feelings and what event is attached to them. What if you could shift that experience by simply taking a look at it from a different perspective? If something in your life is ending, is it possible for you to shift your perspective to looking at the “new beginning” of that moment in your life? Could that shift also create a different feeling for you? It might take a little practice, but my experience is – absolutely!
This shift in perspective can be done in all aspects of your life from careers to relationships and even a loved one moving on. Here is a small example: At the end of Summer last year I was thinking about the things I get to handle in my yard to prepare it for the fall weather. For a split moment I felt a twinge of sadness and feeling that I was not quite ready for the summer to end. In that moment I had the choice to focus on summer ending, which felt sad and heavy to me, or the new beginning of fall, which for me, felt exciting. I began to remember the things I love about fall instead of the things I would miss about summer. This felt completely different because I was choosing to focus my thoughts and energy on positive things instead of negative.
Another example would be if I were to take a look at all of the relationship in my life that have changed. I could focus on the heaviness of them ending, which could feel like a loss or negative, or I can focus on this being an opportunity for a new beginning of a beautiful journey of lessons, growth, healing, forgiveness, joy and gratitude.
Every moment in life is a new beginning and every breath I take is a new beginning – not the ending of the last one. Moment to moment, I am at choice as to whether I focus on the ending or the new beginning.
I know that each of us has a huge contribution to make in this world. Have you ever wondered what you could do? What do you suppose could change in your life and the world if each of us were to focus on the excitement and joy of ALL the new beginning in our lives and really radiate the positive energy from that one simple shift in perspective? The possibilities are endless!
To new beginnings…Love and Light to you!

I watched the movie "The Game" last night and was struck by the similarities between the story of that film and the experience of life on earth. "Loss" is an illusion of this life, (just like CRS facilitated an illusion for Nicholas Van Orton) for nothing is ever lost or gained, it is simply the illusion of either/or. Only when we are willing to let go of everything we cling to can we be truly free and see this life for what it is, how divine we are and of what we are truly capable. What I like about what you wrote here is that you honed in on our experience being about choice. Everything in our experience is created and supported out of love, so why not choose gratitude for that love, and choose peace and new beginnings moment to moment? Very insightful. Thanks!
ReplyDeleteWow thank you for sharing! Everything is created and supported out of love, and I have loved the journey over the last 41 years in coming to that truth within myself. That one simple truth has created a whole new world for me. It reminds me of a story of two travelers who where looking for a new town to move to. The first traveler asked a gentleman from the town what the people where like there. The gentleman replied with the question "What kind of people lived in the town you are coming from"? The first traveler said that the people there were very cold and rude. The gentleman replied "Then that is the kind of people you will find live in this town". So the first traveler left to find a town with kind people. The second traveler came to the gentle man and ask the same question, and the gentle man replied with, "What kind of people lived in the town you are coming from"? The second traveler replied, "The people were kind and giving. The gentle man replied, "Then that is the kind of people you will find live in this town". Life is what we create it to be, and we will always get to be right about what we believe:)
ReplyDeleteLetting go of being right is something I've been working on greatly in the past few weeks. I realized today that other people's relationship to each other have nothing to do with me. Do I love the way these people treat each other? No, but if I choose to be above the drama and let go of being in control of the situation I feel release and it's no longer my burden. I know that everything happens for it's perfect reason and there is a lesson there for each person. My lesson is to stay out of the drama especially when it has nothing to do with me.
ReplyDeleteBoy Deana, timing is everything-and this was perfect timing for me! New beginnings are so important to me, but I recently have not allowed myself to let go and reach out to those new things in my life. I have, as you so clearly put it, "mourned" the things I will be missing far more. Moving to Maryland is a perfect example of that. I get to work on moving my focus 'forward' to the new beginnings.
ReplyDeleteGreat book, Deana. Thank you,I enjoyed it thoroughly!
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